Are you a VICTIM or VICTORIOUS SURVIVOR

How does one go from a PAIN filled world to a BLISSful one? How does one create a life of peace,ease, grace and joy? There's a quantum flip that can happen in one's life when one chooses from victim to being a creator. Science describes a Quantum Flip as the ability of an atom or element in the quantum world to change directions instantly, without ever slowing down to a zero-momentum state. Like rolling a marble up a hill... it

has to come to a stop in order to roll back down, quantum flip. According to Newton's law of physics. There is no slowing or stopping, just a flip from going one direction to another.

There are stages that one goes through to get from the Back

side of the Model/Victim to the Front side of the Model/Creator according to Dr. Sue Morter.

Stage 1:

VICTIMHOOD

The view from our perspective at this stage is you see everything happening to you

and you have no control over anything that is showing up in your life. This is so far from the truth yet you are still shaming and blaming everything outside of you for what is happing to you. You blame everyone else except yourself on how your life is. You are completely unaware of yourself as an influencer and have a strong sense of fatalism and self resignation. "Life is happening to me and I have no control over it."

"This is just the way life is." You're born, you live, and you die. All gloom and doom. Not yet realizing you created exactly what you are living. YOUR CHOICES!

Stage 2:

SELF HELP

This is where most of us start to shift out victimhood and take responsibility of our life and what we have created(no one else can be blamed for where we are and the choices we have made). When we no longer accept our miserable state or get out of the blame game, the shifting thoughts begin. Perhaps I can do something about it?

Is there a possibility there is a better way of life? A happier or healthier space to be in. As we shift things may still appear as "good" or "bad". It is in the choosing how we see things that shifts our way of seeing them almost immediately(according to Wayne Dyer). To make more conscious thoughts and positive actions, we can make the best out of a bad situation. Thoughts: "Though life is happening to me, I choose to make the best of it." A view: "Something is wrong, but I will fix it. It won't get the best of me."

Making lemonade out of lemons becomes your slogan.

Stage 3:

CREATORSHIP VICTORIOUS SURVIVOR

NOW you get it. NOW you are ready to co-create with the Source/Higher Power of your choice. Now you are ready to expand and move forward and celebrate who you are today and where you desire to go. You know you are the only one responsible for your life and everything happens to you is always a result of your choices and now you work with your highest good making the choices that support you and the life you are creating in the NOW.

You now recognize a lesson and teacher as good news in every moment. There is never any excuse to not do anything because the moment you think it, it's created. It's beyond knowing things intellectually, one has actually embodied our energetic or spiritual nature and identify with the energy being what we truly are. The quantum flip or shift

automatically occurs in a sudden, radical, and comprehensive shift.

Self INQUIRY:

1) Ask yourself what stage do you MOSTLY put yourself in right now?

2) If you are daring ask your friends how often they find you in one or the other.

3) What has been the biggest life altering decision you have ever made? How was the outcome and are you willing to take full responsibility to either accept the outcome or celebrate it?

4) Think of the times you choose to live in victimhood? How does it feel?

My challenge you to:

On a daily basis for the next couple of days, see how many thoughts and actions are geared around victimhood or the "No": not enough, not good enough, not worthy, no time, no money,no friends, my job doesn't appreciate me, I'm shy, I'm afraid of others will think of me if I speak my truth, too busy, not now, someone else will do it, I have health issues that keep me from doing things, blah blah etc. These are all excuses to stay in VICTIMHOOD.

Are you willing to shift your thoughts out of victimhood(and the subtle ways it shows up) and move into creator-ship or the "YES" in moving your life forward: with all the infinite possibilities?

Moving forward doesn't matter, gratitude,abundance, peace, love, finding the joy in every situation is all that matters. Stop and ask what's the lesson in it for me to learn? Being in the IAM...(Divine way of being a SURVIVOR THRIVER all the way!

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