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Navigating Your Way Home to Knowing Thyself
Lorraine White LIFE Mentor Coach

Know ThySelf

Navigating your way home to knowing THYSELF​

 

A space for self-awareness. For noticing patterns. For those who feel the desire to live an awakened life—without rejecting their humanity.

This is not about transcending the EGO. It is about learning how to walk with it consciously.​

 

The Threshold

Are you living unconsciously—or are you ready to live awake?

​There comes a moment when you begin to notice. The same patterns and reactions. The same emotional loops. The same stories repeating themselves. Much of what we call “being stuck” is simply unconsciousness at work—the shadow self/EGO doing what it learned to do in order to protect, defend, and survive.

 

ParadiseMentor exists for that moment of noticing. The moment awareness begins.

ABOUT

The First Question

Do you recognize patterns repeating in your life?

  • In relationships

  • In emotional reactions

  • In self-talk

  • In the choices you make

  • These patterns are not failures.

  • These are the exact lessons you asked for.

  • They are invitations to awareness.

 

Awakening does not begin by getting rid of the ego.
it begins by observing it without judgment. Self
-awareness is the doorway.
Knowing thyself is learning how to navigate—with the ego as part of the journey.

The Invitation

Paradise Mentor is not about fixing yourself
or silencing the ego.

It is about learning how to partner with it.

When awareness is brought to your thoughts, emotions, language, and reactions, the ego no longer leads unconsciously. It becomes a messenger instead of a master.

You begin to:

  • Respond instead of react

  • Choose with awareness rather than unconscious habit

  • Witness your inner & outer world with compassion

Awakening is not leaving the EGO behind. It is including it with awareness and partnership.

The Work

This work supports you in:

  • Developing deep self-awareness

  • Recognizing unconscious ego patterns without shame

  • Understanding the ego as a necessary part of being human

  • Forming a conscious partnership with your inner protector

  • Taking responsibility for your inner experience

  • Living an awakened life while wholly knowing ThySelf

 

Awareness does not remove unconsciousness by force—
it gently brings light to it.

 Mentor

Who is Lorraine Paradise White.

I serve as a mentor and mirror—walking beside you as you learn to read your own inner compass.

Through deep, unconditional listening, I often hear what is not being said. This creates a space where the ego can soften and awareness can arise naturally—without judgment, pressure, or fixing.

From this place, I ask clear, honest, and sometimes bold questions—not to challenge the ego, but to gently move beyond its defenses and activate a deeper level of knowing.

These questions are not meant to provoke reaction.
They are meant to awaken Being.

My role is not to tell you who you are.
It is to help you recognize when you are speaking from unconscious ego patterns—and when you are responding from awareness, presence, and truth. Your whole SEL.

Together, we form a conscious partnership with the ego, so it no longer leads unconsciously, but serves wisely.

I walk with you as you navigate your way home to knowing THYSELF—with compassion for both your humanness and your deeper Being.

Working Together

1:1 Mentoring

In a a private, grounded space to explore your inner world, recognize unconscious patterns, and practice conscious choice.

The Journey to Knowing Thyself. Offering programs, tools, and workbooks designed to support awareness, integration, and embodiment—rooted in self-responsibility compassion and Conscious Communication.

 

Learning how awareness and ego show up in language—and how shifting how you speak transforms how you live.

Who This Work Is For

This space may resonate if you:

You have a new deepened desire to live an awakened, conscious life

Are tired of fighting yourself and others?

Is there a sense that the ego is not the problem—unconsciousness is?

Do you want spiritual depth without bypassing your humanity?

Are you ready to strive and step into all possibilities?
Are you ready to remember?

Are you ready to do your WORK that matters only to you?

Are you ready to truly know ThySelf?

A Closing Reflection

Awakening begins with a simple willingness:

  • To see yourself clearly.

  • To include all parts of you.

  • To take responsibility without taking it personally

  • To be open and willing to see all parts of yourself, shadow, EGO and True Self

If this stirs something within you,
you are already navigating your way home to knowing THYSELF.

[Begin Your Journey]
[Schedule a 30 minute free Connection Call]

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Reach Out
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Freedom

We have all come here to shine our bright, brilliant light to serve ourselves and others.
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Transformation

When we become Open and Willing to shift our perspectives, and we trust we are part of something much larger than ourselves.
This  is when we invite our lives to Transform!
TESTIMONIAL
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My experience of Lorraine is one worth sharing! As a coach myself, I know the importance of a strong support team and I am honored she is part of mine. She is an exceptional coach who has truly made a positive impact on my life. Lorraine possesses a unique combination of two essential qualities: the ability to actively listen and the ability to empower. From our very first encounter, I was struck by how deeply I felt heard and understood.  I immediately felt comfortable opening up to her. She asked thoughtful questions and gave me the space to explore my thoughts and feelings. I never felt rushed or judged during our conversations, and that created a safe space for me to share from the deepest parts of me.  What I feel really sets Lorraine apart is her ability to empower. She encourages me to take ownership of my thoughts, actions, and beliefs and reminds me I am the author of the stories I am writing in my life.  I truly feel she is a lighthouse for those of us who may have temporarily lost sight of our compass.  She consistently believes in me and my ability to find my balance again, even in moments I'm doubting myself. Throughout our time together Lorraine consistently challenged me to push past my comfort zone and grow in ways I never thought possible. She has always been ready to offer guidance and support whenever I needed it, and celebrate my successes with me along the way. I feel truly heard, seen, supported, loved and empowered as a result of my time with Lorraine, not only in our sessions, but carried out into my LIFE . . . . I cannot recommend her highly enough to anyone who is looking for someone to be a part of their support team. She is truly one of a kind!

~Chasity Clark

Personal Awareness & Empowerment Coach

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